[JMIKE is a Grizz fanParticipant]

So this girl says hey to me and im the kind of shy guy a good athleth though but people forget me because of my shyness and im not ugly. So since im shy i said the first thing that came to my mind that her hair looks nice. Then i noticed the bow in her hair and i said it really compliments her. I m  shy around girls so i have no game. What that the right thing to say? What do i say the next time i talk to her?

[mikeyvthedonParticipant]

Think it was a fine thing to say JMike. Maybe not the smoothest thing one could say, but just be confident in yourself man. Most girls I know respond really well to that. When I was in HS, I never really thought of girls be as intimidated by guys as we are of them. But, as I get older, I see that seems to be the case.

Ultimately, if you have confidence and start talking to her more often, good things could happen. Ask her about herself, try to learn about her interests. Also, feel free to share your interests as well, though of course try to keep in mind what engages her, so as not to bore her or scare her off. If you are secure with yourself and a genuinely nice guy, without being a pushover, than I am sure the response will be very positive. Good luck, man.

[Malik-UniversalParticipant]

 yo jmike… the most important thing is confidence my man…

girls know when a guy is confidnet or not

dont try to be"cool" or anything like that, just be urself, and take things slow, dont rush, and dont look like a creep

[TRC1991Participant]

smile a lot too, girls appreciate it when a man looks happy to see them. and you dont always have to conversate with her, sometimes just say whats up while walking by. make her interested, if you act too interested, she no longer has a challenge and the fun is over… i know man, head games suck but when you hit your 20’s you still have to deal with them. its part of how it goes

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