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JMIKE is a Grizz fan 14 years, 2 months ago.
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Posted on: Wed, 04/04/2012 - 1:52pm #38017

JMIKE is a Grizz fanParticipantOkay it started about a few months ago when this girl seemed like she was into me. I told her what I thought about her a got her number with hearts and everything. I talked to her on the Phone about once a week and learned that my close cousin knew her and they were kinda like cuzs. Then over Christmas break I finally asked her out but she said she couldn’t go due to a family obligation. I understood as I’m a quiet nice guy who as I am told very mature for my age and doesn’t get bothered by a lot of things. But then she went to movies with this guy I’m cool with and went to the same one I asked her to. It didn’t bother me as she is very popular and they went out before. My cousin
told me to back off though and I did as they have went back together but now they broke up and I don’t know what to do. She doesn’t say hey as much and she has never called me back when I leave a message. I know I should move on as I’m focusing on my football career as I already do 24/7 trying to get to the nfl. But it seems I can’t get over it no matter how much I try and it frustrates me. I’m not even trying to think about her but I do. Please help!
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Posted on: Wed, 04/04/2012 - 3:29pm #655563
CoolidgerParticipantI’ve been there before actually, so I know the feeling. You want things to go back to how they were, but you don’t wanna push on and make things even worse. It’s a crappy feeling.
I think from what you’ve said about this that she likes you, but only as a friend, and she tried to let you down without hurting you when you asked her out because she doesn’t want to be more but she doesn’t wanna tell you that. My suggestion is if you really don’t want to push her further away, just keep the relationship at friendship and don’t try your luck more then that. Let her know that you’d be fine just being friends again like you used to and that you won’t try to pursue anything further.
Again, this is all just hypothetical and reasoning here. Girls are bipolar, so you never know with this kinda stuff. I’m just giving my honest opinion based on my own similar experiences and what you’ve said.
Whatever you choose to do, good luck sir.
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Posted on: Wed, 04/04/2012 - 4:38pm #655578

JMIKE is a Grizz fanParticipantThanks collidger
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